Ask – September 1st

A day or so after that she appeared stand offish but then a day later through her friend and another friend of mine asked me to come to a shoe party (the shoe party was given by her friend).

Since she told me no thanks to lunch, I took it that she was not interested. So I brought my girlfriend with me. We went to the party with my friend and her best friend to the party. When we arrived to the party, we were met outside the door by the hostess and the woman I like.

The woman I like immediately entered back into the house into the foyer n ear the door. I was the last one to enter the door and the woman I like kept raising her arms, gesturing that she wanted to hug ( she appeared nervous). Initially I was apprehensive and waved in a gesture of hello. It was like we were out of sinc because it appeared that she still wanted to hug, so I complied.

Since she had told me no, thanks, I went in for a shoulder hug; no lower body touch and right foot kinda remaining angled back where i was standing. I hugged her lower back with my left hand, rubbing up and down that area. I held the hug for an appropriate timeframe to ensure that she did not think I was trying to feel her up or push myself on her.

She had both her ams under mine with her palms near the shoulder blades of my back. As I was moving out of the shoulder hug and stood more erect, I noticed that she was not letting go and I then began to feel her breast push into my chest area. She did not pull me in but instead appeared to move her chest area closer to mine.

I stood there standing erect and was wondering what was going on. I was confused and pushed her away from me where she stood there looking at me and then to her right where the rest of the guest were looking at shoes, we were still in the doorway). She then immediately stated that there were food and drinks in the kitchen.

I avoided her that night and through my drinking hit on another person in front of her where she just stared at me. later I learned that she and her friend called my friend back that night to the house and asked what was up with me. My friend told her that I liked her and she said that she knew. My friend additionally told her that one of the females was my mate.

A couple of weeks afterwards, when i saw her, she stared at me with angry eyes. The next day after that I called her. She recognized my number and hug up. So i called back and she answered and I asked her why she would not go to lunch with me. She was angry and reiterated “No”.

The day after that I went to her office and she was angry. She vasolated between being angry and condescending. She mentioned my mate. I asked her if she wanted to ask me anything. She angrily stated, “I don’t want to ask you nothing”. We have not spoken since.

What does her hug and her actions say to you? PLEASE HELP BECAUSE II REALLY BELIEVE THAT I LOVE HER. I AM NOT WITH MY MATE ANYMORE.